How can the average-looking guy attract super-hot women? Is it really possible for you to attract sexy girls?
If you talk to any number of super-hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over—she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will never hook up with her. Period. You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough.
The GOOD news is, there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time, allowing you to attract all the women you could ever dream of.
Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing them, you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually viewed as a sexual candidate.
If you don’t know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women.
Inside Her Mind: What Is a Compliance Test and Why Do Women Use It?
These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests. First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.
A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to blindly do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will have gained total control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like they want you to fail these tests so they have all the power, right?
Fortunately, that is not the case. When women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them. It is their filtering system to separate a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest.
It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can’t just look at a guy and say, “He’s good-looking, therefore he’s attractive.” They need much more because they are approached by so many different types of guys. A really attractive girl will get hit on 10 to 15 times A DAY.
That’s roughly 3,650 times a year that an attractive woman gets approached. Because of this, she starts to see patterns in the ways guys behave. She can instantly tell if a man is actually confident or just faking it—and that has absolutely nothing to do with looks.
The compliance test is a tool to see whether or not she is going to be able to get away with whatever she wants.
Why does she want to test this? She wants to find out whether or not you’re used to beautiful women hitting on you, and whether or not you are comfortable being around high-value women.
This is a crucial concept. If you are used to being with beautiful women, you will not bend over backward for one just because she demands something. Instead, you will respond in a way that puts the compliance right back on her.
How to Recognize a Compliance Test
Beautiful women are guaranteed to test you. If you fail, you lose her attraction instantly.
So, how do you recognize a compliance test? Basically, look for any small demand she gives you within a short time of meeting that gets you to follow her lead.
Classic examples of compliance tests include:
- "Buy me a drink." (Women go for the throat here at bars because they want to filter out low-confidence guys immediately).
- "Wait here while I go to the bathroom."
- "Give me a kiss on the cheek."
- "Will you take a picture for us?"
Anything that seems harmless is typically a compliance test, especially when it comes from a beautiful woman.
Your goal is not to aggressively deny the test. Instead, you want to take control over it and add your own terms.
The Secret Weapon: Flipping the Script
Let’s use the picture example. If a girl says, “Take our picture,” you don’t just take the phone like an obedient puppy.
Instead, you say:
"Okay, I will, but under one condition: I want you to take one normal picture, and then one picture exactly how I tell you to take it."
If they refuse, you simply say, "Alright, well find some other guy," and casually wave over another dude nearby saying, "Hey man, can you take their picture?" and let him do it while you maintain your frame.
However, 99% of the time, they will laugh and say okay. You take the picture and then command the interaction:
- "Okay, now I want you to give me a sexy look." (Take the shot).
- "Okay, now make a silly face." (Take the shot).
Continue to direct them as long as you can think of fun poses.
Essentially, what you are doing here is getting compliance from them. This is called "Flipping the Script."
Flipping the script is one of the most powerful psychological shifts you can use. It creates a massive amount of intrigue and spikes sexual attraction instantly because it shows you are 100% unshakeable.
Stand Out From the Crowd
From now on, train yourself to recognize when a woman is throwing a compliance test your way. Don't freeze up, and don't blindly obey. Accept the interaction, but always add your own terms.
When you start doing this, you are going to see truly beautiful women treat you differently. You can watch other guys approach them, get shot down, and let it ruin their nights, while you easily navigate her defenses like a rockstar.
Women are deeply attracted to the guy who refuses to just do exactly what they want. Be that guy.
